Um, it isn't our job to potty train the children, it's the parent's job. We are the helpers, the secondary caregivers. They have to be well on their way to training and understanding what's happening at home before I will start helping out as you are describing. I'm way too busy to waste my valuable time like that on 1 child and it really isn't fair to all the other children who are being neglected because 1 child is getting all that attention.