It is a huge adjustment for your own children to "get used to" and their WILL BE times you will question yourself whether it was the "right choice" due to the reaction your kids will have in regards to these kids in their home, on their Mom's lap, and playing with their things. You need to remind yourself, this IS better for them than going outside the home for care, you also need to remind your kids, (they are lucky to have Mommy) Dont forget to give your kids their own "space" and "time" and toys. let them go to their room and play alone if they want, allow them to keep their own things that the DKK can't play with, (of course out of DKK reach) and remind yourself what you are staying home for.......YOUR KIDS! it's not easy for them to understand when they are so little, when I started my youngest was about 1, he had a hard time sometimes I wondered if it was the right choice. almost 10 years later...I nkow it was