Who do you think is going to be washing the dishes if she starts her own dayhome? And she won't be doing it for 16.25/hour. I have a 21 yr old myself and you can't tell them anything. Unfortunately the outcome of this could be life changing and not in a good way ! As a parent I never ever let/made my older children babysit my younger children cause if anything ever happened while on their watch ..... Well that is a very heavy burden for your child to carry around for the rest of their lives. I would never put my child in that position. So hopefully she thinks this through very carefully.