Can I put in a word here? First off, I think the more private daycare forums the better. BUT.......when you use a "free" site like forumotion google still has the ability to bot the site so don't be surprised if your "private" posts are searchable online by someone looking.

Unless the site owner pays for private hosting and has access to the file management system and the SQL content then there is no guarantee that your posts are really private.