I am more bothered than I thought I was!!

[Nottellin']

Like I said, I really like them, but love, no. I am a Registered Early Childhood Educator and we are not taught to "love" the children. We are taught to care for them, nurture them, help them achieve milestones, facilitate their play to encourage growth, teach them social skills. Maybe that is the difference here. I am a professional and I do regard this as my job and would not do it if it didn't offer a a paycheque. I have bills to pay, just like my doctor wouldn't heal people if not paid, just like your dentist wouldn't check your teeth if not paid. I'm not a saint, I'm a child care provider.

I agree with you. The paycheck is NOT an added bonus. Most providers, provide care BECAUSE it is a way to have a paycheck and stay home with their own kids.

I think you put it perfectly!