I am more bothered than I thought I was!!

[mimi]

I had a similar departure after looking after her two children over 5 years. I felt insulted as I knew I deserved more consideration. Of course others will say it is business, she gave her 2 weeks notice so what's the problem. I think the problem is our job is more personal than most. We care for the most important people in these parents lives and try to teach these children good values, we show our caring for them and we teach them what we can. All this deserves more respect than a two week notice and a "see ya" . I have learned to harden my heart to these types of people and just care for their children always prepared for the "notice" On the flip side, I have had the most heartwarming thank you's and good bye's that fill my heart with gratitude and joy and that is why it is so difficult to take the cold good byes. I hope this new provider makes this child feel as cared for and loved as you did.