I am more bothered than I thought I was!!

[Nottellin']

Like I said, I really like them, but love, no. I am a Registered Early Childhood Educator and we are not taught to "love" the children. We are taught to care for them, nurture them, help them achieve milestones, facilitate their play to encourage growth, teach them social skills. Maybe that is the difference here. I am a professional and I do regard this as my job and would not do it if it didn't offer a a paycheque. I have bills to pay, just like my doctor wouldn't heal people if not paid, just like your dentist wouldn't check your teeth if not paid. I'm not a saint, I'm a child care provider.

I agree with you. The paycheck is NOT an added bonus. Most providers, provide care BECAUSE it is a way to have a paycheck and stay home with their own kids.

I think you put it perfectly!

[kidlove]

Thank you Sunnydays. That is exactly how I feel. My heart is totally in this job and I am proud to admit it. Don't know how I could do this if it wasn't. For years ALL my parents have made comments regarding that same thing, including this Mother, for 3.5 years she told me I was such a big part of their lives and their daughters life and they were so happy to have such a kind and loving person for her to spend her days with. guess that's why I felt a little hurt. that's all. I'll be just fine though, really, not tore up just needed to vent and be understood, thanks so much for having an understanding heart. They are few and far between in this crazy world.