Thank you Sunnydays. That is exactly how I feel. My heart is totally in this job and I am proud to admit it. Don't know how I could do this if it wasn't. For years ALL my parents have made comments regarding that same thing, including this Mother, for 3.5 years she told me I was such a big part of their lives and their daughters life and they were so happy to have such a kind and loving person for her to spend her days with. guess that's why I felt a little hurt. that's all. I'll be just fine though, really, not tore up just needed to vent and be understood, thanks so much for having an understanding heart. They are few and far between in this crazy world.