Kidlove- I wouldn't have posted if i didn't want some advice. Advice is always good, weather or not I want to hear it at the time.

the girl is also refusing to sit quietly at quiet time. My rule is you don't have to sleep, just sit quietly with a book or quiet toy. She will not sit on her mat and refuses to be quiet.
My oldest is 3years old and does not nap, but my 9 month old needs to nap and is not due to all the noise she is making.