Who smeared Poop, that's gross. I thought you said you were waiting for the smeared poop, all joking aside, you can def begin redirecting her from 1 to near 2 years, can't do much else until she can understand the full reprocussion of her choices. She is def a handful (i call that spunk) will always stand up for herself and thats good character, and will def learn the hard way and that is determination. She is a keeper, just needs alot of redirection and understanding. And some "no,no's"
good luck, your hands are full