To sunnydays.... mainly because I did not want to loose the sibbling as it was a difficult time to start new with someone, as I had just had my second child. It was actually good timing to have her part time and I did/ and still do, want to have the baby in care. I guess I was just hoping something would change with my other families from within the year so I would not have to!
It's funny because your question made me realize that the hardess part of this job for me will be that I do not like change!!! Yikes! I guess this will be my first time facing this challenge!