I know...it is really hard on them! And it depends on their personalities and experience how they take it. I started another 1 year old 2 weeks before this one and he has never cried at all except for a few seconds when his mom leaves. He is happy and easy going all day long...I totally hit the jackpot with that one! And I really want this new one to be okay as I feel bad for him being under so much stress. At least I know I am not alone!