My new dcb is actually really really good at going down for nap...it is the only time he doesn't cry ironically! His mom did a good job of getting him ready in that he goes down easily, he feeds himself, drinks from a cup, etc. Plus she got him onto my napping schedule before he started. This afternoon I saw a little glimmer of hope...he actually played a bit with me sitting on the floor near him! The entire last hour of the day he did not cry! And I saw some smiles! Fingers crossed this will continue tomorrow...I had actually typed out an email of warning to his parents, but saved it to drafts, intending to send it tonight. I may hold off and see what tomorrow brings. I am exhausted...time for a glass of wine or a beer