Is this woman the complaint police? Why are people complaining to her? That is called gossip and there is no need for it other than to stir up shit, which is exactly what she is attempting to do when she talked to you. If your husband comes home and yells his head off, whose business is it? Maybe he has a reason for yelling. Maybe he just has a loud voice (I know my hubby does). Maybe he is fooling around with his kids being an awesome dad. Don't give this bitch another thought. Women like these show their true self by their actions, other moms will know what she is like as well and likely not believe all of her "complaints" either. Don't let her make you feel bad or worry about your business, it sounds like her yap is bigger than her brains. If she has any more "helpful suggestions" let her know that if someone has a problem with you or your husband, they should talk to you directly since you don't trust simple gossip.