Strictly business?

[Starshine]

I can see saying that you have a previous commitment if they invite you to something on a specific date. But what if they say, 'Oh we should get the kids together at the park one day.' Then what do I say?

[Wonderwiper]

I can see saying that you have a previous commitment if they invite you to something on a specific date. But what if they say, 'Oh we should get the kids together at the park one day.' Then what do I say?

You don't have to run screaming if you happen to show up at the same place and it's easy to be friendly at the park for example, but you don't have to go out for ice-cream together afterwards. If the idea of meeting up at the playground is mentioned casually say that might be fun....non-committal but not offensive! If an actual time is suggested, then unfortunately you have other obligations that day!