while your concern for this child is genuine, most parents dont take well to their daycare providers suggesting that something may be wrong with their child even though its just because you want the best for them. i had a dcg with me several years back. she had been with me for over a year and was an amazing well adjusted child, smart, spoke really well from a young age. The whole family including grandparents, aunts and unclues and cousins went to cuba for a week and the girl came back a different child. Obvisously the first thing that came to my mind was that she was spoiled like crazy. after a couple of weeks of her sitting by herself and crying for hours and refusing to eat or play with the other kids i voiced some concern because she also has a ton of mosquito bites from their trip. My concern was completely genuine and i kept them updated on how her days were going and that i wasnt seeing any progress. they were insulted by my suggestion that she maybe see a doctor. they took it personally and assumed i was suggesting that they were not attentive parents. that was not the case at all. this girl loved me to death and was happy to sit with me and cuddle but she was just off, not the same and a week of spoiling doesnt do that once you get a child back to routine. Ulitimately, they came one day, said thanks for everything we are moving her to a centre and i never heard from them again.