Sometimes we providers have to def be careful regarding how much we suggest, say about or push a topic. If you said something to Mom already? Let her think on it and provide great care for the kid in the meantime, until you maybe notice anything that could put the child in danger or a huge change...say nothing more. Seems all most parents want from us is to keep their kid happy and safe while with us....there is a small number of parents who even give a sh** about our opinion on things or our say on anything regarding the raising of their child. took me a while to learn that...I have placed my foot in my mouth many times over the years. It's hard not to when you are with the child sometimes even more than the parent.