Quote Originally Posted by kidlove View Post
tstep8. Think I see the issue after reading your last few posts. This little one is understimulated at home. If they are allowinga diaper rash to get so bad it bleeds? She is being a little neglected in the diapering area IMO. Therefor, neglected in other areas as well. Not dressed for the proper weather?...neglected . I have learned over the years even the most loving parents can be lazy, this child may not be getting the proper interaction she needs in oder to develope proper at her age. She will catch up in time probly, but for her early years it will seem as if there is a delay. Thank God she is placed with you during the day, you can dress her well to go outside, change her diaper regularly to avoid future rashes, and read to her, encourage her to play with the other children (picking up proper social cues) encouraging her to communicate. Read to her, show her picture books and encourage her to "say what she sees". Not saying the parents are not good parents, but I have seem parents like this over the years, just a little on the lazy side maybe.?
I was thinking the exact same thing this seems so neglectful. Everytime I leave my child with a babysitter, even if it's a grandparent I make sure she has everything she could possibly need. Even in the summer I will pack a hoodie just in case. In the winter she needs a proper jacket mitts, hat, neck roll etc. I can't believe someone would leave their kid here without sending them proper clothes and raging rash so bad the baby can barely move. They bring her in a little vest and short sleeve shirt in November!!!!!