I had this exact same issue with a dcg. she was being dropped off right at nap time. Between the inconsistency with her parents and the lack of any time to get used to me and the other kids, she couldnt settle at nap and cryed continuosly. I had a chat with dcm, said she needs to be dropped off no later than 11am...within a week it was like a different child. She slept like a dream and was great during the day as well. I would discuss with dcp and see if they can drop her off earlier....its too hard for her and for you this way..