Thanks momof4, I really enjoy this forum so I don't want to be ignored! haha. There is a lot of awesome advice and people from what I have seen so far I actually saw playfelt comment on the "new posts" option a couple days ago and I have been doing that lately. That has helped my confusion a lot lol.

I have a question and this is probably the wrong spot for it and I'm sorry if this is sidetracking the thread but........how do I remember what threads I have posted in??? I find it really confusing to keep track of which thread in which category I posted in.