That is so sad and it really opens up the debate over private care vs. centers. As a parent who has had my child in care all I can say is how did she not know? But the fact of the matter is when little ones can't talk how can you know. She must be beating herself up like crazy! It really sucks out there and it really makes our jobs all that more difficult as people have a God given right to be extremely picky. I can tell you she will never be able to trust again how can she

Parents should show up at unexpected times and be able to pop in. (none of us love this as it makes us feel weird but goodness its there Childs safety there looking out for and there comfort level) For me my parents can come in and go anywhere there kids go at anytime they are in my care. I let my parents know this right off the bat.

Have they asked you to care for there little one?