I get that one apples: was just thinking the same thing. Reading this was like watching a soap opera, and YES the plot did thicken as soon as the provider chimed in! uuuug! not sure this relationship will last much longer than this post will linger though, now that the "battle" has been opened up so much. Too bad for both of them now. I think this Mom should move on and so the provider....not sure anything will be the same after this. Understand wanting to tell your side totally, but now that you have? No turning back! Time to move on. good luck getting a client that is a better fit already there. and good luck to you Mom, it may be hard but you might be bale to find a provider to better fit your needs.......just be careful..alot of times, cheaper ($) care= cheaper (quality) care