Yep, from now on its going to be the first to pay is the one to get the spot. I can't afford this waiting game. The other two dck's are also through agencies, but it only took a few days to a week before they were in my care. Not really sure what is going on here, I just feel like I am being screwed. I will hopefully get some interviews lined up soon. I am now wishing I had gone ahead and interviewed all the parents that asked over the last two weeks if I had a spot for their kids. I know for next time, I will just keep interviewing until the child is in care.