Am I being an ass?

[BlueRose]

The way I see it, if the party is not during daycare hours and you are not comfortable having the family in your home for the party, then don't.
If the party is during daycare hours then I would have something for all the kids even these two, its not their fault the parents are mistreating you. But i wouldn't invite the parents, the naughty need not party.

[bright sparks]

If the party is during daycare hours then I would have something for all the kids even these two, its not their fault the parents are mistreating you.:.

I already have gifts for all the kids, so they will get the same as every other child. I love these two to bits, so I'm making the most of my time with them