My daughter is the same!!! She is pretty much fully trained for pee and wears underwear most of the day (once she has pooped)...but the poop is harder. I did manage to get a tiny little poop in the toilet yesterday and cheered her on like crazy...so here's hoping! I actually bought some special "fancy" (well they are not that fancy...but I she likes it if I call them that) underwear that I keep on a shelf and if she poops she is allowed to choose a new pair to wear. She loved them because they have stars and polka dots, etc...very girly things that she likes At first I thought me buying them and telling her what she has to do in order to wear them, had no effect, but thent he next day after she did manage a tiny poop, the first thing she said was "Now can I have the new big girl underwear?" I am hoping we will move forward from here now that she has had a little succes. She also poops right after waking up in the morning...I think it is a combination of being relaxed and the privacy of it. I agree with those that said, don't pressure or he will hold out even more!