I have my 2.5 yr old son in another daycare up the street. He goes two days a week, and let me tell you- those two days are HEAVEN around here!!
Definetly consider it even for just a part time basis. She may even calm down, (which is what I have found with my own son). I think he has learned that he doesnt need me for every little boo-boo or to take him to go pee or to be picked up constantly!
I did feel bad at first, but I also feel like it is a benefit for all of us that he goes there.