I have also suffered and tried all different soaps.

I think the cream hand soap is the best but still you will get chapped hands from washing so often.

I think I have found the solution. I heard lots of good things about hand lotion called Eucerin. I got the one for very dry hands and it is supposed to stay in your skin for 24 hours. I rub it on every night and I seem to be doing much better this year than other years. Only minimally dry hands even though I am not lotioning up during the day.

I would suggest cream soap and then Eucerin hand cream at night. The Eucerin is a little more expensive than some other brands but I think my bottle was $12 or something so not anything crazy and it works.