Yikes it does seem awful but if this was her first round of interviews she might just be inexperienced and scared about leaving her child. Your husband might be right.
She might be taking the role of interviewer in a intimidating/business sense rather than trying to build a rapport and get a feel for you.
That could just be inexperience.
When I was 25 and doing my first interviews to find a daycare provider - I also came with pages of questions i had printed out and found online and I went through them. I was such a nervous nelly and also examining everthing very seriously. After all, I was entrusting my beautiful baby to someone I barely knew.
Maybe that was what the daycare mom felt??? Try not to take it personally![]()