I have two really picky eaters too. I have tried many different meals and can usually get the youngest to eat some of it. I'm to the point now that I know the one likes sandwiches. and will eat them. So I don't go out of my way anymore. I always have fruit and veggies that get eaten, so I figure a fed child is a happy child. I try my best to provide as many healthy choices through the day, but I am done going out of my way to make special "hot" lunches. Everyone likes a sandwich with fruit/cheese/veggies on the side so I consider it all good