I have one of these too!! And in all honesty, for the very first time in over 10 years in childcare I can NOT form a bond with this 2 yrs old! He's only 2!!! For one thing, he's not cute Sorry to say. And along with that he has a ton of annoying mannerisms. I feel so awful!!! Luckily, I don't think he knows the difference, as I treat him as warmly as the others.