They must have changed the rules of daycare and subsidy than over the past five years ... cause when I was still in centre care regional run daycares could not accept a child 'eligible for school' regardless of special needs unless the parent was willing to pay full fees for it ... if they were eligible for school even jk or sk they were expected to use that funded service and our schools are suppose to be 'integrated' so any child whose labelled special needs would get assistance through an EA and resource teachers within the classroom setting .... have they talked to his school about accommodation or just assume they would not take him since he was not toilet trained and kept him out?