Uh oh! I am the freak in the bunch!!!! I do rinse, especially babies, they spit up so often and sometimes poop out of their diapers. I always rinse, unless I suspect an illness. If it is an older child I will not! ever! if anyone vomits...no way! everything goes into a bag and is placed outside my front door for pick-up! But, a small child potty training or a baby spit up or poop I always rinse. I also do all the kids laundry, when we play outside and they get dirty, they all change in to their spares and the dirty goes in the washer and back to their cubby when clean. just works easier for me than running out of spares and having parents not replace them. I have had many parents tell me those are the "above and beyonds" they love about me. I really don't mind unless their is an illness, or poor behavior (like older child pooping pants )
Have to add though,,it took me a few years to get over the "germs", when I first started, I couldn't stand even seeing a child mouth a toy or drool on my floor, then I realized if I stayed that way...I would go insane!