I have only had one make the comment of "just throw them away" but I concidered the source because she was also the mommy who would feed her daughter a bowl of frozen veggies for supper because she didn't want to cook dinner, or who didn't bathe her child so I would give her a bath because her bottom was sore or her butt was stinky. ewe! I guess at least it was veggies, and I always found I enjoyed the child "needing" me so much. sad to admit!!