Whaaaaaat? How rude! Oh you poor thing, I would have been livid! But I'm not a morning person at all so that would have made me really angry.

I'm sorry this woman doesn't value you, but those are the kind of people we don't want in our daycares or in our lives in any capacity. We deserve respect and we have to let our clients know that. You don't have to be rude to her but you can be strong and as others said, say no next time because you gave her a chance and she blew it, just like a kid! You have to take care of YOU, not just all the children.