Well thanks for your feedback everyone. To those of you dealing with this EVERYDAY ... How do you do it ? I am so happy she will not be her efor much longer, then again it was getting better but the fact that she missed a week and only attends one day a week makes it difficult for her. But I do feel like I could lose my mind doing this everyday, It feels like total chaos around here. I can't change diapers whitout earing one child screaming at another or taking a toy from one another, fighting... I have been policing all morning. We got through our craft time luckly but barely. My own 3.5 year old had a huge tantrum when the other girl took her toys away then my 21 month old trying to come the her rescue ( ok kinda funy said like that ) but it felt like a war zone. Circle time was a mess ... They all fought over the same ''conversation'' piece. The only rest I had is when I said ok let's put on a christmas cartoon. Then they ALL sat on a blanky together and spent 20 minutes looking at the show and talking nicely to one another... Feeling like such a failure today as a provider... I hope the afternoon will go better or I think my husband will go hungry tonight coz once the are all gone I am soaking in the tub lol.

What is your secret to make it work on a day like this ?