Re-reading, it does sound like she is saying her daughter would say no to napping so she "pretend" naps to get her daughter to sleep. Definitely hoping that is the case.

I didn't mean to sound so harsh, but I just had this discussion with another forum board and the members didn't think napping while the kids slept was a big deal.

There is just no way anyone can convince me that naping while the daycare kids nap is safe or ok under any circumstances.