Thank you Momof4 - I'm thinking of getting some articles for comps to say that I came across this info which may be of some help....type of thing. I know what you mean, in a parent's eyes anyone who points out something "weird" in their child is the bad guy. I'll have to be careful.

I appreciate you validating my feelings, I was starting to think if it was just me but after speaking with this forum & some in person ladies they too agree something's up.

Thanks again