I apologize. It was not my intention to judge, I was just genuinely shocked. I am not someone who can nap myself... I would fall into a deep sleep and the house could be chaos and I wouldn't notice. I never even took naps when my own children were little. So the thought of someone napping while on duty with children was foreign to me. And I didn't notice in the original post that the 3.5 year old was supposed to be napping when this happened. I understood that the 3.5 year old was awake when the daycare provider took a nap. That's what shocked me so much! So, I misunderstood the situation in which the provider took a nap. I pictured a house full of children playing and a sleeping provider.