O yes, you are right there sunflower. I certainly don`t dwell on it. I have a child with multiple fears and anxieties. We talk about it, face it etc. then move on. This is actually the second child I have had with anxiety disorders, the first one is an adult now and he has thanked me for making him face his fears. For example, he wouldn`t go outside in the spring because of the bugs. I was patient at first and went way above the call of duty to show him there was nothing to fear (well usually, lol) then I said, now wipe away the tears and put your shoes on because we are going outside until winter comes. Eventually, a long time later, lol, he didn`t even mention it anymore.