Maybe they were looking for a new daycare because she was being kicked out...due to late pick-ups etc. Why would they move her closer to mom's work and then now the dad is picking up? Makes no sense. Did the mom know you were going to change your snacktime to accommodate her daughter? Because, if I understand correctly, you had told her that if she wouldn't be there by 8:15 she had to have a snack first...maybe that is why she took her to McDonalds (not exactly a healthy option, but that's beside the point)?