Thanks for your great advice

Obviously I cannot do the step by step training, I have smaller kids then she is so thats a big no no , I doubt that the parents would be comfortable with their child being without bottoms infront of the others anyways and also the fact that I just dont want to deal with peepee that much. Its the parents job to do that if they really want to. Oh and plus my floor is really cold, it is a basement and it is the winter. Pull-ups are good for children who are ready but have sometimes accidents, its easier for the child to push down and PULL UP haha the undies until fully sure they are clean.

Perhaps she has been push in it to much, if at home they have no problems, then I will let things go until after the Holidays, maybe a week and a half at home, she'll be more ready at daycare... hey who knows ?!?