I always ask the parents "where" they are in the interviewing process - have they met with other caregivers, how many - that sort of thing. I then have a frame of reference for how serious they are, and when they could be expected to get back to me with a decision about whether or not their child will be joining my group. I also ask parents if they are on any "waiting lists" at other private daycares or at liscenced centres. It's not that I won't act as an interm caregiver, but I like to have all the facts when I'm assessing a family's suitability with my program. I close every meeting with families by asking them to get back to me by a certain point in time - based on where they are in their search. Sometimes I'm asking them to get back to me by the weekend, other times it's more like a week. I've found if you leave things too open ended, people will take far too long to get back to you. It's agony for me waiting to find out if I made the cut, and it's not necessary - you know pretty quickly if this is someone you want to work with, if you like their approach with children, etc.I also ask parents what it is that they prefer about home daycare. It's just a nice open ended question and it opens dialogue between me and the parents about what they feel is important. Lastly, I ask every parent if they have any special/specific concerns about placing their child in care - again, it's just an open ended kind of question designed to get the parent to talk a little bit. =) Hope this helps, and good luck with your interview - I know what you mean about hating to forfeit our evenings to interview prospective families. Especially irritating when it goes no where or they are clearly not serious. Grrrr.....
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