Thanks Reggio! I have been wanting to find a way to broach the topic of this child's development for awhile, but was hoping with time he would catch up. To me he is about even with the 13 month olds I have in care in pretty much every way. My husband thinks I should not say anything and that all kids are different, but he has no experience with this sort of thing...it just makes me feel like I am being nit-picky to even notice such a thing. I would just hate to see him go undiagnosed for something that could be treated. Any advice on how to say this to them without making them feel overly alarmed or defensive?