Sorry about your experience. Doesn't sound fun to me. If it's not for you, it's not for you. You have to do what's best for you.....but maybe it's just 1 bad apple. Do you have a feeling about the new inquiries? If we follow our gut and find families with similar morals and values as our own, it can be a piece of cake.

And what about daycare instead of before/after school. Maybe it would better suit you....?

Good luck in whatever you decide.