I agree...before and after sucks! I have one and I'm lucky she get's along with my kids otherwise it wouldn't be any good. I dread PD days. But I love my little ones. Everyone under 2.5!

I'm sorry you've had such a rough run. If you still want to give it a shot I would suggest dropping the before after and just go with a few full time good hours. Better money and easier kids to deal with.