Newbie DCD wanting to come at naptime to pick up

[Crayola kiddies]

So how'd it go?

[Other Mummy]

So how'd it go?

Glad you asked Crayola...Well...DCD shows up at 3:06 (yeah, I'm anal, I actually checked my phone when he came to the door). I opened it before he could ring the bell. I greeted him and went to get DCB out of his pack 'n play. DCB just woke up and was startled but I quickly picked him up and brought him to DCD. I reminded him that he needs to let me know in the morning if he is doing an early pick up so that I may have DCB ready. I let him know that DCB has a very wet diaper (it was quite full) and that he cannot change him now as the children are still napping and DCB was on the verge of tears. (of course, who likes to be plucked up with sleep still in their eyes and just woken up and getting coat, shoes, etc on).

DCD seemed indifferent, maybe annoyed that he had to wait an extra 20 min or so to get DCB. Too bad. I reminded him to please read my contract concerning any other policies. He left and forgot (or left behind) DCB's artwork and Christmas craft. I'm not getting a good fuzzy warm feeling from this DCD. The mom is great so far. DCD is cold. This is the same dad that did not even acknowledge his son with a smile or hug or anything.