I have a dcm who over the last two days has texted me to see if she could come during quiet time. Both times I said yes, only because the kids went down early and were already up. But she would have gone shopping if I had said no.

I tell parents in the interview, that if they wake the kids up, they have to get them quiet again. When the parents laugh I just look at them and as "I am not joking, you will have to nicely get them quiet and back to sleep"