I have a new child starting soon and his mother recently emailed saying she planned to drop by occasionally to see how he is doing once he's settled in. How would you respond to this???? I have no problem with her showing up unexpectedly, however, I feel it is not fair for the child to see mom but not get to leave with her. So, I want to say no, unless she takes the child home,
but obviously need to explain myself properly. Any ideas?