I agree apples and bananas. I can not complain about my clients. They are a generous lot. However, we do as well give gifts to persons who provide a service to our family. I even gave my mailman a gift. We see him most days on our walks and he stops a moment and talks to the kids and always has a smile and a wave to the residents in our neighborhood. I love the extra effort he puts in to be socialable and I reward and give thanks to him via a verbal thank you and a small token gift. He is so appreciative. That's just the way it should be with us providers.