Well, I take my job very seriously as a teacher and caregiver and I want the children to learn life lessons from me, so I don't just tell them to go away from me without helping them, so I still disagree. It's very important to me to start these children on a good road in life with proper habits and empathy for others and manners so I work WITH the children and don't just tell them to leave me alone. I still don't see how it helps a child with your method. So once again we should agree to disagree I suppose. There's a lot of that happening on this forum this week!